Behavior Problems

Behavior Problems are actions that are disruptive, unsafe, inappropriate, or difficult to manage and that interfere with a child’s functioning at home, school, or in relationships. All children display difficult behaviors at times. Occasional tantrums, arguing, refusing directions, or emotional outbursts can be part of normal development. Concern increases when the behaviors are frequent, intense, persistent, or sginificantly interfere with daily life.

There is usually a purpose for children’s misbehavior. Behavior often communicates a need or response to something going on around the child. Some common purposes misbehavior may serve include:

  • obtaining attention

  • escaping or avoiding a task

  • obtaining access to something desireable

  • obtaining sensory or emotional regulation

  • skills deficits

  • environmental factors such as changes at home, school difficulties, family stress, lack of sleep, and other stressors may also contribute to behavior problems.

When to consider seeking professional help:

  • The behavior is occurring frequently or becoming more intense

  • The behavior is interfering with school or learning

  • The behavior is causing significant family conflict

  • The behavior is affecting friends or relationships

  • The behavior includes property destruction

  • The behaviors creates safety concerns

  • The behavior is occurring across multiple settings

  • The behaviors is accompanied by significant emotional difficulties

  • The behavior is not improving despite consistent parenting strategies

    A mental health professional can help identify contributing factors, teach behavior-management strategies, and work with the child and family to develop healthier patterns.